Sunday, October 7, 2012

Friends and fun at The Rub :)

It was a few days to my wedding when I got a call from my friend, Deji. He wanted to find out how things were going and if I needed anything. I thanked him and said everything was fine and then he asked what car I was going to ride in to church. Shocked that I was seriously considering riding in "Funmileyi", my faithful rugged Nissan Sunny, he offered me the use of his car he had just bought. He wasn't going to let me get away with another of my crazy schemes... Bride driving her self to church? Maybe in the movies, but not in Lagos.

I was pleasantly surprised by his thoughtfulness. Preparing for my wedding without my parents had taught me that the only One I could really count on was God. Life had shocked me into growing up. Taking care of myself without asking for help quickly become a lifestyle. Deji's kind gesture meant a lot to me particularly because it was his idea, not mine. I have been told that I give off a vibe that suggests I don't need help, perhaps that's why I don't get people offering to help me often. That's fine, I don't have a sense of entitlement. I also don't like waiting around hoping to be rescued. If I want something done, I do it. On the rare occasion that someone not only anticipates my need, but also attempts to help me meet it, I really really appreciate it and I do not take it for granted. It's the little things make my heart smile. I don't forget.

He's in town for a course and we got a chance to hang out last week Friday. We had fun, reminiscing about old times as we laughed and talked over dinner. His wife, Yinka, and I are best of friends. She was one of my bridesmaids and she's extra special because we were born on the exact same day :). We've all come a long way since our Daystar singles fellowship days and God has been kind to us.

We found this really cool restaurant, Jonathan's The Rub, tucked in a cozy little corner and we had a good time. The food was really good, catching up and spending time together was even better. Fun times :)
The Lobster Taco was really good! By far the bestest Taco I have ever had.


I had the Red Snapper Santa Cruz served with a side of  Mac and  5 cheeses. Words . Cannot. Describe.


 Jonathan's The Rub gets 10/10. We're definitely going back.
 I'm going to keep being nice by bringing you more pictures of food ;) If your tummy rumbles, that's a signal for you to say a prayer for me. Hehehe. Pray! Pray for your sister... lolzzz

Thanks for coming by again and again.
May your dreams come true.
xxx



14 comments:

  1. offering his car, such a simple gesture that meant so much! what a lesson for all of us! What would the world be like if we were all looking out for each other like that?!
    That food looks so yummy!!!
    I am your newest follower..pls follow back if you can.

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    1. It would be a much better world for sure!

      Been at yours and loved it. Your daughter's friend made me laugh. I hope she didn't repeat the shots?

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  2. Gbemi loves food has to be the new blog name ohh.. lol. aahhaha

    they all looked yummmy btw...

    nice post...

    awww... nice story..

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    1. lol. Name change? *hmmm* I'll think about it :)
      Thanks babe.
      xxx

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  3. I was priviledged to be the driver of the day plus it was my first opportunity to drive a brand new suv.

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    1. Yeah!!!
      My personal person!!
      Thanks for being there for me on my special day and through the years. Me love you long time!
      Mwwwwaaahhh!!

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    2. Babe!!
      You didn't tell me you started a blog. I couldn't hold back the tears. You are one strong woman and I am blessed to have you in my life! I love you Lanre!

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  4. hmmm.....no prayer for you. I am hungry :(

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  5. God bless those precious people in our lives :)

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  6. this madam u like ..i mean love...food too much jo..lol

    yes it is the little things that counts.

    oh i used to attend daystar as well (2003-2005..i think) but hardly knew anyone

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  7. you are officially a foodie joor *hands u a platinium membership card*

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  8. I love the foods
    http://trendysturvs.blogspot.com

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  9. Why are you wickedly teasing us like this huh? :D

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  10. Omg @ that lobster taco!!! I waaannnnnnnntttttttt!!!!

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