Yay!!
I did my first video today and I am sooooo excited :D :D :D
What do you think about this statement?
"A good woman isn't concerned with her man's friends of the opposite sex and a good man doesn't give her reason to be."Someone tweeted this and I didn't agree. This led to an interesting debate and at the end, Joy asked me what I would do if my "Boobokins", as my husband is fondly called, was attracted to another woman?
I promised her a blogpost that answers that question and then I thought, how about a video? I have been meaning to do one for a while, but between procrastination, not knowing what an appropriate topic would be, and not knowing how to work the video thing, it never happened, well, until today.
I tried and tried to keep the video short, just so you wouldn't get bored. I didn't cover everything I would've liked to say and I would be glad to throw more light if you have any questions.
Please share your thoughts...
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You're so right Gbemi!! Seriously! I refuse to disrespect my partner by putting him in the all men cheat box! Innocent until proven guilty...lovely videooo
ReplyDelete"Innocent until proven guilty" I like :o)
DeleteThanks. You inspired me to do this video.
Thanks for taking time to answer my question so wonderfully! :D Not all men cheat, and I have no reason to think my hubby will; he's committed to God and to our marriage and i'm sure the Holy Spirit will keep helping us both. It's the THOUGHT that he'll be attracted to someone else that is just annoying. My brain knows it's a fact, my heart just cannot stand it. Gosh, i'm such a jealous rat! I like my cute little apartment in this place called denial oh, i'm not moving out! If he's attracted to someone else I soooo do not want to know about it. Maybe when I'm all grown up and everything... :p
ReplyDeleteHahaha. Joy!
DeleteYou stay making me laugh. I totally get you and I can identify with your apartment on denial lane, seeing as I lived there until recently (Not like I have given up the space or anything)...
lol @God forbid folder..
ReplyDeletelovely video and I agree with u on all counts...
And i am with Joy I so dont want to know if my hubby is attracted to someone else..he shld deal with it fast and nip it in the bud...and can be giving me the gist of how he overcame..in fact i no wan hear
otherwise...in fact no let me talk
Hahaha
DeleteHe can give you the gist after, right? Ok o.
How about when it's someone else being attracted to him? Would you like to know?
This is actually something hubby and I have discussed, it's a fact of life o, he will be attracted to someone else or maybe the right way to put it is that he will find someone else attractive, I'm thinking by saying attracted to someone, it maybe someone he has access to anyway I'm confusing myself now :-) the conclusion of our conversation was that if either of us found someone else attractive, we would tell each other in fact we have, but then we also tell each other what we found attractive about them, in reality someone may be attractive from afar, on getting to know them, you may find they have a nasty attitude so the koko is not to get close enough to find out either way abi....
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find attractive. Attracted to. Same difference.
DeleteI like that you guys are being proactive. People who do not have any thing to hide usually have no problems with full disclosure. Way to go!
Great first video! straight to the point, I'm no longer on twitter so I do hope you blog more often as I find you very inspiring :)
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely agree with the points you made.
stay blessed!
Thanks Sabirah.
DeleteI miss you on twitter, but then, you know what's good for you and that's something I respect. :o)
Great video. U were direct and said a lot in 4 minutes.
ReplyDeleteLike Joy said, the thot of my man been attracted to someone else is a bit unsettling. But its best not to be in denial and discuss regularly about it.
Thanks :o)
DeleteYeah, it's unsettling, but the truth is often that way.
No wonder you suggested I do a video too. Lets go on the Vlogging spree. I loved it.
ReplyDeleteNow to real business, all you have said's very true. A born again man is not Jesus! Even Jesus was tempted! What is important is ensuring we stay through to our marriage and ensure we do not fail God and our spouses.
- LDP
LOVE THIS! Just shared it with my married friend. Xx
ReplyDeleteme like....femi
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